Frustrated: Trying to plan something with my family has to be one of the most singularly frustrating experiences of my life. I'm going back to Frederick next weekend for my brother's high school graduation, and called home to find out what exactly I need to plan around. My mom wants to go to dinner as a family sometime, but she doesn't know when, and she doesn't want to plan it because she's trying to stay flexible. In the meantime, I'd like to make plans with friends, but I can't plan around a meal if I don't know when it is.